Alex was a constant in my life, albeit distant, always sending a birthday card and calling to hear the news of my life. When we were young we used to love visiting her flat, with its treasure trove of surprises. She used to spend so much time with us as little children and made us feel so special.When I was a teenager I was thrilled when she took me shopping in Oxford street and made me feel very grown up. She was always thoughtful of others. Whenever I spoke to her on the phone, she always asked after my mum (Kim), even though she hadn't seen her for years. She had a beautiful smile, even when she was worried about her teeth, and an infectious giggle. I'm just sorry that I didn't take more time to visit her in the last few years when she was vulnerable and finding things harder. She will always live in my heart, and in my family, through my son, Alex, who we named after both her and my grandfather. Rest in peace now. Lara X